I’ve learned to let go of the things I cannot have.. of situations I cannot change.. and times that I cannot bring back.
In life, there are moments that you have to stop.. think.. and tell yourself, “give up and learn.. so that next time, you’d know better.”
i keep telling myself not to wait for him.
but not long after that, i find myself.. waiting for him
I realized that waiting for someone is really hard work.
Han Ji-Eun, Full house (via crisdieta)
I have a
“secret blog”that no one knows about. Its where i write all my frustrations in life. Recently I went through it and this is what i wrote to myself last year around October. Read it. I hope it helps you as it has helped me, again. :)
“why cant you see past your problem? don’t you know that life is more than just your problems? more than just your emotions? more than just feelings? more than just you?
life is not always about you. yes, this is your life but there is more beyond the world you have made for yourself.
jump, run, roll, dance, sing, climb, toss, turn… do something with your life.
questions on what, when, how, who will come. but don’t let this stop you. just do. keep moving. the answers will come when you start doing.
fly, cry, make mistakes, make noise, scream, shout, love, learn, hate, discover….
who cares? this is your life. not theirs. your life to live. not their life for you to live.
yes, its lonely. its sad. its tiring. but keep moving. keep growing. keep learning anyway. thats the beauty of life. the beauty of strength. the beauty of courage, of faith.
step out. dont let the ship sail, instead… jump out, who knows you might just walk on water.
life is beautiful. live it. now before its too late.
and life…. its more than just YOU.”
(Source: andimanzano)
When you feel invisible, when you feel abandoned, when you feel insignificant, there is the hope that one day, something happens that substantiates you, then people will take a second look, maybe even a first look, and understand, and appreciate, and love.Strange Fruit, Chico Garcia (via sightforsoreeyes)
There are certain things in life where you know it’s a mistake but you don’t really know it’s a mistake because the only way to really know it is a mistake is to make that mistake and look back and say, “Yup, that was a mistake”. So really, the bigger mistake would be to not make the mistake because then you’ll go your whole life not really knowing if something is a mistake or not. And damn it, I made no mistakes. I’ve done all of this: my life, my relationship, my career mistakes-free. Does any of this make sense to you?Milk, How I Met Your Mother (via sightforsoreeyes)
Seen this post in my dash.. and remembered the exact episode. ♥
(Source: yanilavigne, via superkamille)
Loneliness is not lack of company, loneliness is lack of purpose.Guillermo Maldonado(Source: quote-book)
If everything is so easy, it would be meaningless, right?
Wait for the person who pursues you, the one who will make an ordinary moment seem magical, the kind of person who brings out the best in you and makes you want to be a better person. Wait for the person who will be your best friend, the only person who will drop everything to be with you at any time no matter what the circumstances, for the person who makes you smile like no one else and when they smile you know they need you. Wait for the person who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats and a t-shirt, but appreciates it when you get dressed up for them. and most of all wait for the person who will put you at the center of their universe, because that’s where you belong.
At some point you will realize that you have done too much for someone or something, that the only next possible step to do is to stop. Leave them alone. Walk away. It’s not like you’re giving up, and it’s not like you shouldn’t try. It’s just that you have to draw the line of determination from desperation. What is truly yours would eventually be yours, and what is not, no matter how hard you try, will never be.
